My Mom is in Heaven and whole again, and I am thankful.
Once in her later years after one in a series of mild strokes, I was telling a doctor something to the effect of "I got her a microwave with ONE knob, provided handwritten instructions, and told her repeatedly how to use it, and still she gets it wrong! What shall I do?".
He replied "Well now, it is like trying to train a pig. The pig don't learn, and all that happens is that you and the pig get frustrated."
Point being, it is your own investment in insisting that the other party "changes" that is the source of frustration.
Pretty smart old Dr., I decided...
Once in her later years after one in a series of mild strokes, I was telling a doctor something to the effect of "I got her a microwave with ONE knob, provided handwritten instructions, and told her repeatedly how to use it, and still she gets it wrong! What shall I do?".
He replied "Well now, it is like trying to train a pig. The pig don't learn, and all that happens is that you and the pig get frustrated."
Point being, it is your own investment in insisting that the other party "changes" that is the source of frustration.
Pretty smart old Dr., I decided...
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